AFTERCARE FAQs

Why does Billow offer an aftercare program?

The Billow Co. wants to extend their care and concern for individuals and families after the funeral. Our goal has always been to help people with their grief, before, during and after the funeral. An aftercare program offers us this opportunity. Our services are 20 years old and one of the first in this community and across the United States.

What does the aftercare program include?

The services that we provide are multi-dimensional. We provide support groups for spousal loss, for parents who have lost a child and for adult children who have lost a parent. Individual and family counseling are also available. Newsletters, books, seminars, a Holiday Memorial service, information and follow-up for individuals and families are also offered throughout the year.

Why do you offer three loss specific support groups when many other programs put all different type of losses together?

It is sound clinical practice to create the groups by loss. A grieving parent wants to be with other parents who have also lost a child, but not necessarily with someone who has lost a parent or spouse. The group members have much more in common when they are put together by loss. This commonality offers connection and support for the group members.

What is the benefit to those who come to the group?

Many group members feel less alone in their journey of grief. They learn how to manage the many emotions related to their loss. Group members can discuss in confidence their concerns, sorrow and other issues, which they bring to the group. Many members believe it is an opportunity to share their story with others who may have a similar story. This validation is helpful in their healing. Through their connection with one another, hope is given.

How is the program different from others in the community?

It is comprehensive in its offerings and the groups are loss specific. Any counseling services are provided in a comfortable and familiar setting, one does not have to go someplace else for help. The services are provided by a master-level social worker who also is a certified thanatologist.

What is a certified thanatologist?

This a credential given by the Association for Death Education and Counseling which confirms ones expertise in the study of death, dying and bereavement. A comprehensive exam must be taken and passed before the credential is issued.

Is your aftercare program open to anyone who needs bereavement services and what is the cost?

The program offers all Billow families help first and then the groups are open to those persons seeking services. All of the programs are free to all individuals and families.